You are realizing that it is incumbent upon you to find solutions that benefit both parties. You are beginning to see in your daily dealings that this is necessary for the peace and happiness of all involved.

This is the loving of others as you love yourself. This is kindness in action for it is saying, “Your wellbeing is as important as my wellbeing”. It is asking the question, “What can we do so that both of us enjoy the happiness and contentment that we both deserve?”

This is an extremely powerful paradigm for it literally turbo boosts the universal level of happiness available to all. If in all of your dealings, you were able to adopt this simple principle of being: that my happiness is yours and yours is mine, then you would act differently and begin to experience life differently.

Say to yourself:
May I be the love, I wish to enjoy.
May I be the joy, I wish to share.
May I be the compassion, I wish to receive.
May I be the freedom, I wish to experience.

(The Treasure Is Within by Jane-Louise Kelly, page 137.)